Scorpios have a reputation that’s legendary for being secretive, and unless the moon or the ascendant is in a more affable sign like Sagittarius, this is essentially true. Scorpio women guard their secrets as closely as Taurus guards their 401k portfolios; it’s that important!
This is not to say that a Scorpio woman can’t be chatty; the difference is that she is telling you only what she thinks you should know. Her true feelings, the ones she holds dear to her heart, will remain unspoken until the time is right. To Scorpio, secrets are like little, precious nuggets of gold.
Keeping all those secrets can make for a rather intense personality! Among the Scorpio women traits is a seething mass of emotional intensity over every hurt and every wrong doing that has ever been done to her. Perhaps that’s why Scorpio women prefer to be quiet; if they start talking, all of that intensity may come pouring out. The Scorpio woman, over time, has learned all too well that not everyone appreciates, or can handle, such a depth of emotion.
Aloof and Calm
Paradoxically, Scorpio women tend to be quite aloof on the surface. Even when she likes someone, she’ll still fix those steely eyes on that person and make them quake all the way down to their boots! The more she wants something, the less likely it is that she’ll let on. This all plays very nicely into her psychological game of getting what she really wants.
Even in the middle of a fight with the love of her life, she’ll dare her lover to pack up and leave. Don’t be fooled. This is just a tactic designed to test the strength of your love. At a board meeting, she’ll calmly walk away from talks letting her opponent sweat it out a bit. Again, this calm exterior is designed to get everyone to fall in line.
Sexy and Magnetic
So why do we put up with these Scorpio women traits? Mostly because this lady is incredibly sexy and magnetic. To be clear, sexy does not mean sexual (although most Scorpios, when paired with the right individual, can be quite sexual). No, here Scorpio women are just plain sexy!
Whether it’s those almost glass-like eyes or her Mona Lisa smile, this lady just radiates wantonness, but unlike other zodiac signs, there’s a dangerous quality that lurks just beneath the surface. You just don’t know if she’s going to have her way with you, hurt you terribly or both.
Perhaps it also helps that Scorpio women are also incredibly magnetic. Whether it’s due to their seething emotional life or their capacity to understand the darker nature in us all, they just seem to draw you in. Much like the spider and the fly, once you’ve been invited in, there’s only a slim chance you’ll leave.
Why Love a Scorpio Lady?
The sexuality, the secrets, the magnetism; it all sounds like so much to deal with! So why bother? It’s worth dealing with a Scorpio beauty because of her great capacity for kindness. It may sound strange, but Scorpios, despite their tendency for walking on the wild side of life, truly want to do good in the world.
In fact, a Scorpio woman may actually be the nicest, kindest, most good-natured person you’ve ever met; she connects that well with those who are suffering or are in pain.
The other reason is one you’ve probably already guessed. Despite the drama, once a Scorpio woman loves you, she’ll love you for life. If she really believes in you, she will look past your flaws (but she will comment on them!), and risk life and limb to keep you safe from harm. If it’s a passionate, long-lasting commitment you are after, look no further than a Scorpio beauty.